Holistic companion

One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don't have enough money to see companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they'd like - or can't afford pleasures at all.  But this is not an insurmountable problem. Here is how to surmount it. The key to men having enough money for pleasures is motivation, discipline, and managing money. If you know how much your companion, courtesan, mistress, or paramour charges and want to see her at all or more often, you can plan for it. Planning = saving.  You can save a fixed amount every week. It will add up at the end of the month.  And that will motivate you more to continue saving, because you'll see results. Or you can save a fixed amount every month.  The result will be the same, though the method will be less structured.  Saving a sum once a week may seem too structured or constraining for some men whom this article may inspire to try it.  Putting aside a lump sum once a month may seem a little more liberal, permissive, lighter on the mind. Of course, good savers will be familiar with either strategy. They'll find either strategy easy, because that's exactly how they afford everything. Hence good savers always have enough money for what they want! Or another way is to save a fixed amount from every pay. This is a good strategy especially for people who work for wages instead of salary. So the bottom line is that w... Read More

It might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it's definitely true - and would make many a woman want to kill me.  Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here's why. Nature designed men to be promiscuous. In the world of animals the males of many species impregnate a female, but don't stay with her for life to raise the young and grow old. The males of some species leave the female immediately after impregnation and never come back.  Males of other species openly mate with all the females in their herd. Men and males were put on this planet to preserve the species. In the world of modern humans this principle translates into several ways. 1. men who choose to stay with one woman all their lives seek variety in affairs with courtesans, paramours, or mistresses. 2. men leave the impregnated woman as soon as she announces pregnancy. 3. men go through several partnerships or marriages in life. Some men do it all: they have wives, girlfriends, lovers, and still even pay for sex. But this male promiscuity is perfectly natural and healthy for their sex lives. And women who refuse to accept this fact delude themselves.  I don't need the results of studies to tell me that staying with one sexual partner for life kills the magic of sex. It does, because good sex usually comprises unpredictability - an ingredient that inevitably evaporates over time when we have sex with one person all the time. To keep the magic in any relationship it's important to have va... Read More